Wednesday, March 14, 2012


Oh my goodness, S, sometimes you totally get it.  I don't agree with everything on this blog that I've been following for years, but there is enough consistent truth here to keep me coming back.  It's good to think for yourself, and I do.

Here's one of the posts that stole my breath.

My Ideal Woman

March 12th, 2012 by Steve Pavlina
… loves to learn, grow, explore, and share.
… would rather travel to more cities than buy more shoes.
… cares deeply about people, animals, and people who behave like animals.
… feels blissful being cuddled by a warm fire.
… enjoys breaking rules together.
… stretches herself.
… loves being caressed in the bathtub.
… embraces truth even when she doesn’t feel strong enough to act on it.
… values contribution more than accumulation.
… likes active days and sensual nights.
… appreciates the gift of life.
… forgives old bruises.
… makes healthy food taste yummy.
… tries new things just for the growth experience.
… communicates her desires openly and invites others to do the same.
… loves long walks under a starry sky, holding hands.
… bares her soul when making love.
… is selective about whom she lets in.
… is a crystal whose facets reflect light in ways which seem impossible.
… can be silly when she’s being serious, and serious when she’s being silly.
… accepts that I find her irresistibly attractive even when her body frustrates her.
… trusts in her heart enough to be spontaneous, but still consults her brain.
… doesn’t care what movie we’re watching as long as we’re touching.
… is a paradox.
… likes to meditate by candlelight.
… appreciates sincere reminders that she’s beautiful.
… enjoys hanging out with self-discipline one day and self-indulgence the next.
… likes making me feel powerful, though she can melt me with a glance.
… loves pausing to kiss on escalators.